Do you know what your core erotic theme is? This is a wonderful book for anyone that wants to delve deeper into what turns them on and why. Even if you already have a solid understanding of your desires, this book is bound to ask you questions no one else has. It includes many stories of people of all sexual orientations describing their fantasies and what arouses them. As one reviewer said, “Morin’s landmark contribution is his ‘paradoxical perspective on eroticism.’ [Morin] challenges a variety of widely-accepted theories about attraction and great sex… ‘this new paradigm acknowledges and embraces the contradictory, dual-edged nature of erotic life. It recognizes that anything that inhibits arousal-inducing anxiety or guilt, can, under different circumstances, amplify it.’ The paradoxical view is at the heart of what makes this book special. It isn’t just some scholarly, cerebral view, but rather a theory with profound experiential/ practical significance…”
You can access Dr. Morin’s Sexual Excitement Survey here.