The 5-Step Guide To Meeting The Love Of Your Life

**Quick disclaimer: I identify as queer female and mostly date men. While certain parts of this article more deeply speak to heteronormative females, the concepts discussed are applicable to all relationship dynamics. I am a sex coach and relationship therapist. As such, it’s awkward to admit that it took me 18 long years to understand…

Love is Expansive

The other day a friend asked me what I thought the definition of love was. After thinking about it for a moment, I said, “love is expansive.” In recent years, I have gotten a little more life experience under my belt and expansive seems like the most concise and accurate way to describe love. Why?…

Why I’m A Sex Worker

Guest post by Meredith Kirby Getting home from a long night at the strip club is always nice. I take my makeup off, eat a nice meal, drink a tall glass of water, and sometimes take a bath with Epsom salts to soothe my sore muscles. If I’m still feeling awake, I might sit down and…

What Does BDSM Look Like?

Guest post by M. Christian What does BDSM look like? Maybe you already have a clear sense in your mind. If not, close your eyes for a moment and imagine what you think BDSM might encompass. What did you picture? Don’t feel badly if what comes to mind is sternly black leather, frighteningly brutal equipment,…