Avoidant Attachment – From the Horse’s Mouth, Why I Always Have An Exit Strategy

In Attachment Theory, there are four attachment types: secure, anxious, avoidant, and anxious-avoidant. In this post, I’d like to discuss avoidant attachment. Mark Manson has made a great outline of the different attachment styles here if you’d like to learn more. Note that avoidant attachment is different than Avoidant Personality Disorder. Keeley and I were chatting…

Why I’m A Sex Worker

Guest post by Meredith Kirby Getting home from a long night at the strip club is always nice. I take my makeup off, eat a nice meal, drink a tall glass of water, and sometimes take a bath with Epsom salts to soothe my sore muscles. If I’m still feeling awake, I might sit down and…

What Does BDSM Look Like?

Guest post by M. Christian What does BDSM look like? Maybe you already have a clear sense in your mind. If not, close your eyes for a moment and imagine what you think BDSM might encompass. What did you picture? Don’t feel badly if what comes to mind is sternly black leather, frighteningly brutal equipment,…

Sex Clubs – Essential Reading Before You Go

Perhaps you have been curious about sex clubs but don’t know where to find out more information. Maybe you’ve gotten an invitation to a sex club and are feeling a little nervous! Going to a sex club for the first time can be exciting, but it can also bring up a lot of questions that…

Online STD Test – EverlyWell Review

We recently tried out EverlyWell’s online STD test. We were amazed by how simple, fast, and accurate the test was and would like to recommend it to everyone. The first step is to order a test kit. Biological females can order a test kit here and biological males can order a test kit here. When you place…