Are You Talking Too Much On a First Date?

For most of us, meeting someone new is a somewhat stressful experience: will they like me? Will I have something interesting to say? Will I feel included? Raise the stakes to a date and now it is: will they think I’m sexy? Can they see my flaws? Do I have something interesting to say? There…

Orgy Do’s & Don’ts

Once Upon A Time by Keith Haring, 20th c. American painter (Mural in the second floor men’s room of New York’s Lesbian and Gay Community Services Center) Guest post by Lady Jane At BetterSexEd, we strive to bring you accurate, progressive information on a wide range of topics with a side of clever wit, cheeky humor,…

Cleaning Up After Cum & Blood

Not trying to freak you out with the title! But for one reason or another, almost all of us have experienced a sexual play time that accidentally ended with cum, blood, or some other body fluid on the bed. Cum: Some guys have Spiderman cum that seems to go everywhere. Sometimes it can feel like…

STD Scare

This very realistic and hilariously short video, Blessing in Disguise, highlights how stigmatized herpes (particularly HSV-II, or genital herpes) is in our culture. A close friend of mine loves to tell the story about his good friend from Europe who was once asked if she had herpes by an American man. Her response: “Are you…

From Awkward Moments to Enjoying the Ups and Downs

We have all experienced the awkward moment during sex. You move to take your shirt off, or your pants, or your body makes a funny noise that no one was planning on. We don’t normally mentions these moments, we move as quickly past them almost pretending they didn’t happen.  Still, they happen. At one point…