Nice Guys Don’t Finish Last When They Speak Up

I hear it quite a bit in my practice, “He is really nice, I like talking to him, but I don’t want to fuck him.” How do you find the balance between being a nice person, and being a fuckable person; how do you cross the bridge from being someone women are not interested in…

Does A More Equal Marriage Mean Less Sex?

Image © Craig Cutler for the New York Times This is a response to Lori Gottlieb’s article of the same name, Does A More Equal Marriage Mean Less Sex?, recently published in the New York Times. In her piece, Ms. Gottlieb noted that: A study called “Egalitarianism, Housework and Sexual Frequency in Marriage,” which appeared…