Masturbating On Valentine’s Day

I suppose there’s no better day to talk about masturbation than Valentine’s Day. It’s the gift you give yourself really, and much better for your waistline than chocolates. But you can also share it with that special someone if you want to 🙂 “Having sex is natural but talking about sex is not natural,” said…

Arousal Addiction and Porn

Arousal addiction, a concept that Phil Zimbardo and I presented in the TED eBook Demise of Guys and later Man (Dis)connected, refers to seeking out novelty in order to achieve or maintain a high level of arousal. Unlike alcohol or drug addiction, where someone wants more of the same alcohol or drug, a person that exhibits…