Many men who come into my office struggle with ejaculation issues. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common concerns, and there are a few false beliefs I keep hearing. I’d like to set the record straight for anyone considering coming in and provide information for those who do not have access to a therapist.…
I often recommend sex toys for men to use when they are masturbating – especially men who are experiencing a sensation-based sexual struggle. The most common sex toys I suggest using are the male masturbator (aka fake vagina) toys. First, let’s look at a few reasons why men may want to try using a sex toy:…
One in three men report being affected by premature ejaculation. Despite ejaculation control being such a common issue, many men feel as though there are no good resources available to help them. The most common medical treatment from a doctor for premature ejaculation is prescribing an antidepressant because one of the side effects of antidepressants…
A close friend of mine and I were taking a walk when he started sharing a story about a new woman he started seeing. In the middle of the story he casually mentioned that, “I popped a pill before we went to bed.” I think he just assumed I would know what “a pill” was…
Yes, people who act as sex surrogates actually exist. The proper terminology for this line of work is surrogate partner therapy. Before the AIDs scare of the 1990s, there were many more sexual surrogacy partners than there are now. With the fear of a deadly sexual transmitted disease, many surrogates closed up shop and chose other…
When we use the term arousal curve, we are speaking to where you are in terms of feeling turned on. No two people have the same arousal curve, it is different for every person. The curve is a scale from 1- 10. 1 is very little arousal, 9 is the point of no return (orgasm).…
Because I specialize in male sexual difficulties, one issue men often come to me for is ejaculation control related issues. Many men are confused about premature ejaculation (aka early ejaculation) and ejaculation control, terms that are bunched together but actually indicate different concerns. I’ll explain the difference: if you are ejaculating before your clothes come…