Does A More Equal Marriage Mean Less Sex?

Image © Craig Cutler for the New York Times This is a response to Lori Gottlieb’s article of the same name, Does A More Equal Marriage Mean Less Sex?, recently published in the New York Times. In her piece, Ms. Gottlieb noted that: A study called “Egalitarianism, Housework and Sexual Frequency in Marriage,” which appeared…

The Arousal Curve 101

When we use the term arousal curve, we are speaking to where you are in terms of feeling turned on. No two people have the same arousal curve, it is different for every person. The curve is a scale from 1- 10. 1 is very little arousal, 9 is the point of no return (orgasm).…

Ejaculation Control

One in three men report being affected by early ejaculation. That’s a lot of guys! Even more men out there are feeling as though they are underperforming in the bedroom. Often the idea that you might be underperforming can lead to all sorts of beliefs, ideas, and feelings about yourself. One of the ways I…