Single: You Need an Air Game and a Ground Game

Over here at BetterSexEd, when we talk about singles and dating, we often talk about what we like to call your “air game” and your “ground game.” Your air game is your online presence, and your ground game is what you’re up to off-line. In this day and age, you really might want to consider…

Be With Someone Who Pushes You to Be Better

We all need a certain supportive quality from our partners from time to time; when couples come in to see me, so often this is what they have lost. We all need someone to believe in us and encourage us to take risks, and love us even when we fail. This past weekend I was…

Amazing Lovers are Made, Not Born

Even Don Juan had to become Don Juan Amazing lovers are made, not born. The reality is, amazing lovers are not automatically born into amazing lover status. Someone taught them how to touch, kiss, lick, grab, and hold. Every day I have conversations with people; clients and friends alike that are concerned about their performance…

Passion: Find It & Keep It

Remember the beginning of your relationship, all those feelings of passion? You were lustful and excited about getting to know the other person. You stayed up all night talking endlessly, and a mere look or slight touch turned you red hot inside. You felt alive, with more energy and happiness about the way your life…

Cheating Wives: What’s Up With the Cuckold Fantasy?

You may be surprised to learn that a lot of men (and a few women) have a sexual fantasy where their partner is having sex with someone else. It usually goes like this: their partner is being fucked by someone else and they are either watching or otherwise unable to physically participate in the scene. This…

Living Like Roommates: How Did We Get Here?

The term “sexless marriage” gets a lot of attention, but often, relationships are “touchless” long before they get labeled as sexless. I was watching a movie, Le Week-End, the other day. It is about a British couple who, after 30 years of marriage, return to Paris to re-create their Honeymoon. The movie was quirky, yet…