So, You’re a Slut: Telling Your Doctor the Truth

Guest Post by Lady Jane It’s that time of year again, folks… Time for the yearly pilgrimage that so many of us make to the gynecologist to ensure we’re all in tip-top shape, excellent health, and to get those screenings for HIV, STIs, PID, cancers, and any other health issues that may have crept up over…

What Do Men Really Want?

You may have already read our post “What do women really want?” where women gave us the top things they desired in a relationship. We decided to take a poll of some of our male friends, to hear what they had to say: H.R. Someone who listens. Does not try to fix me. Herb I…

Cheating Wives: What’s Up With the Cuckold Fantasy?

You may be surprised to learn that a lot of men (and a few women) have a sexual fantasy where their partner is having sex with someone else. It usually goes like this: their partner is being fucked by someone else and they are either watching or otherwise unable to physically participate in the scene. This…

Be There for the Best Sex You Will Have

Guest post by Melissa Fritchle In yoga communities you may hear a saying attributed to different teachers depending on who you talk to, a reminder to us performance-oriented types. It is : “We don’t use our body to get into the pose, we use the pose to get into our body.” This is an invitation…

De-mystifying the Erection

The penis is one of the most contemplated organs of the body; it’s the source of pride, ego, pleasure, and at times, pain. For all the emotions and energy spent thinking about the penis and its functions many people don’t really know how it works. I’m here to help clear a few things up for…